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Don’t Forget It’s Your Destiny

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The most important thing to remember in any goal is why your doing it. Because there will be days your tired or want to give up. If you don’t have a clear picture of the finish line you can’t succeed. So the biggest enemy you will find is your own friends. My best and closest friends are the ones who tell me, “Amy, your going to the gym to much, you don’t eat enough, you looked better before or the best one is I can’t tell a difference or you are to thin,” trust me when I’m to thin I’ll stop. My point is I don’t give a rats ass what they think I never started my goal with pleasing them. Am I right? I started to love me. To walk in a room and see a pretty girl and think she’s pretty too not I’m not as good as her. Maybe I’m not, maybe I am but none of that is the point. The point is I worked hard to accomplish my physical and emotional goals, I know my value I know what I bring to the table I don’t need to cowar or feel small to anyone. So these are my goals, I do what is good for me not my audience. It’s funny I want my thighs as small as possible but since I lift it’s hard to get as small as I want I need to run a lot. I do run a lot. My friend Jax says Amy, keep your thighs thick. Everyone has an opinion don’t they? I love my friends but the point of my blog is don’t lose focus of your big picture. This is about being happy in my own skin. Let the nay sayers say whatever they want.

I say to everyone who has a goal - you do you. Cheers to finding your true self

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